All change is loss. So don’t ask me to let go if there isn’t something to reach towards. How can I let go of something so meaningful if I’m not clear of what I’m moving towards, how can you ask me to do that?  

Or worse, how can I expect someone else to create that meaning for me? Why would I give that power away?

If I can’t avoid the chronic grief and emotional exhaustion that constant change brings, the very least I can do is make it all mean something that revitalizes me.